REMINISCE ABOUT THE PAST





REMINISCE  ABOUT  THE  PAST



We usually  trust people  from the day he or she speaks  his/her soft words with  us and  fall  for them like  there is  nobody  like   them. We usually share each and every pleasant /dark moments of our life with them unknowingly.  It seems like we are travelling in a comfortable company but we may be wrong. One should not share each and every moment of  his/her personal life that might give a chance for the other person to take advantage of your personal life. Do not simply trust each and every body without giving reasonable time to trust through their actions. Trust is earned through actions not through words. 


I had a lot of friends in my college, hostel and in the colony where I stayed with my family.  I had a great bond with my roommate. I used to share each and every moment of my life. We used to study together, eat together and help each other every time either of us faced any problem. But that bond weakened when another girl came to the same room. We three used to study together but my roommate who had become a very good friend of mine started drifting away just because I used to score more in the tests. With the passage of time her behaviour also changed. I was in a lot of mental agony during that period. I used to cry whenever I was alone and started feeling lonely in the same room which three of us were sharing together. That was the  time when I felt being let down by their behaviour. 

 Then later I decided to leave my past behind. I changed my room and made a new friend. Then I changed my mind set and started concentrating on my studies. With the perseverance and my hard work I got admission in the university that I often dreamed off. Their behaviour remained rude against me throughout. Decisions define Destiny. In short ,stay focused and start loving yourself only...

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  1. “Instead of worrying about what you cannot control, shift your energy to what you can create.”

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  2. Awesome story .... I don't know this is true story. But every single word ,you write is 100% accurate means. Stay focus on your dreams. Don't lead you down for such a shit thinking friends.
    Luv you, writer .
    Keep going,stay blessed.

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  3. It means Focus what we want and ignore which is unnecessary

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  4. If ur mind state is focused wid ur goals...no one can distract ur journey

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  5. First Paragraph is very true 👌

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  6. Gd yr...u r really inspiration fr those who are stuck in same situation

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  7. You know what I learned from these situations.. like now I feel that this kind of situations are opportunities by which I can prove myself one more time and become stronger rather than leaving the situation and start afresh.. here's how I do it.. whenever someone is having a different picture of me, I just let them think that they are right and enjoy that knowing what they think of me.. and then I just keep on doing what I am doing instead of thinking about them cuz it will waste my time.. and then they will understand one day and the more I am focused on myself, the sooner they realize.. after that they are going to think or probably overthink about their mistakes and make a decision of either to stay in my life or just leave and start their life afresh.. in this way I don't suffer because of the mistakes of other people.. and I do apply this in my life practically.. sometimes its hard but harder things makes you stronger.. and all the best with your studies

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    1. Thank uh so much.....u also doing good...best of luck to uh also!!

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